Hey men...we’ve to responsible to ourselves, but once get married, we’ve to wisely proportionate responsibility to your wife, children and ourselves.
So, please be wise when looking for a wife...once you get married, and as a responsible father [husband], you can’t look back but regret will cover all your live. Nothing can change once you already decided. Thus, think with full of ‘iman’ what kind of desired girl you’re going to choose. Combination of these criteria shall be considered:
· Base on her Islamic appearance, but please don’t judge a book by its cover! Never ever being emotional...love has promise nothing but love becomes catalyst for happy life.
· Look for the prettiest in your eyes...never ever ask your friends but ask your deep insight, because pretty is subjective to everybody.
· Look for the rich girl not only in materials but as well as her attitudes. Pretty isn’t long lasting but attitudes will intact forever.
· Education. Never ever argue with women that received secular education because most/many of them are arguable! Woman with religious education background is more patience and know the best practice on how to handle husband. Women are created to ‘accompany/flank’ men. Today secular women interpreted Hawa was made from Adam’s rib, which meant to be loved and protected...yes, once Adam’s rib suppose to be ‘part’ of Adam’s body.
So, men...renung-renungkan dan selamat beramal...
